Turns out what he REALLY wanted was a speech! – So – for what it’s worth Alun – my speech.
First of all a huge thank you to Daryl’s parents for helping to organise tonight’s party – and especially Muriel for playing surrogate Mum for me – I know Alun is most appreciative of all the work you have done to make tonight a success.
I have known Alun for a very long time – no that’s not right that’s what a friend would say.
I have known Alun since he was born – no that’s what his father would say.
Mmmm – The truth is I have known & loved my son since his conception.
There were those few weeks when I just KNEW I was pregnant – But I wasn’t sure ? Such a mixture of feelings. The breathtaking news confirmed by our Doctor.
Telling Douglas – telling my parents – telling Mum & Dad Bain – I remember it all.
Alun your memory may not be as good as mine but I clearly remember the conversations we had in the nine months before your birth!
Douglas played all sorts of music for you & we faithfully attended antenatal classes like all anxious but excited 1st parents.
We were lucky to know an incredible Lady called Mrs Dobbie who gave us wonderful insights into birth and parenthood. She also read my future in my palm – I remember thinking at the time it couldn’t possibly come true – I am sure she would not be surprised to know – it did!
The less said about the labour the better – but the moment of your birth - now THAT son was one of the two most special moments in my life – and the most significant in yours!
Douglas will speak for himself but he was pretty overwhelmed at the time as I recall.
It would be nice at this point to say you were a lovely baby & rave on about how good you were.
However Douglas will confirm you had NO idea how a baby was supposed to behave.
We should of known from the very beginning you would be a non conformist.
Sleep was a foreign word to you – and for us! I once abandoned you in your pram & walked to my mothers. She collected you and gave me a little respite – and a BIG lecture.
At this stage you are probably all thinking – GOOD GOD she is going to cover EVERY year of Alun’s life – well let me tell you all – I could!
I remember every memorable moment in your life Alun – at least all the ones I know about!
When you cut your 1st tooth
The day you 1st walked
When you began talking - & then you never stopped!
Your 1st day at school.
Getting the photos out for Daryl was a wonderful trip down memory lane.
You were very young when Douglas & I separated. We both worked very hard to give you the parental support you deserved & though your childhood was far from ideal you certainly gained a larger than average family and more than your share of Grandmothers!
I suppose if there is one thing you remember about your childhood it was moving!
You are no doubt grateful only your mother possesses Gypsy blood. Imagine what it would have been like if you had to remember your father current address also!
We always had a rule about any activity you wanted to try – you had to agree to complete a full season or term before trying anything new.
Forgive me if I miss any but I recall :
Rugby, Gymnastics, Swimming, Athletics, Horse riding (OK that was MY idea)
Bike Riding, Triatholons, Tennis, Stamp Collecting, Violin
None lasted to two seasons.
I’m not sure if this is a reflection of your versatility or an indication of your staying power!
You did enjoy & continue to participate in School theatrics, theatre sports and youth group.
The scouting movement gave you the opportunity to attend a Scout Jamboree.
When you believed in something you were formidable.
The way the world and particularly NZ was dealing with waste disposal was of enormous concern to you and when you were only 11ys old you organised a recycle collection in Hikutia.
Looking back it is hard to imagine an 11yr old having the resourcefulness and courage to get the Mayors of 2 large regions to co-operate with you and busy farmers to take time out towing trailers to collect the rubbish.
You managed to convince your class to help sort it at the hall & ended up making extra money for the school as well.
The Community Award you received was unique as no other commendation had the signatures of two Mayors.
The reporter who interviewed you for the paper was very impressed with your knowledge and maturity.
You followed this up by becoming a vegetarian and stuck with this philosophy until flatting made it too difficult to maintain.
You enjoyed a stay in Trafalgar near Melbourne in Australia on a Twin Exchange & we, in turn, had Ben to stay on the farm. I think Ben found Waiuku college a bit hard to cope with but enjoyed farm life.
You, by contrast, loved Australia & didn’t want to come home!!
The following year we took a one way exchange & Tamara came to stay.
We see her occasionally & she is always interested in news of her NZ brother & his mates.
One little story that clearly shows your wit (at least I hope it was wit!) happened when I was ill with leukaemia and the specialist had recommended a marrow transplant. As my son you were a likely donor.
I was explaining the procedure to you – I thought quite simply so as not to scare you.
You sat very quietly for a while and then said – I am adopted right Mum ? !!
One of the hardest things I have ever had to do was leave you in New Zealand when we came to Australia.
I have always tried to let you be independent and make your own decisions so I could not & would not attempt to change your mind.
That decision has led you on many an adventure over the past 4 years – some good – some bad, but all part of helping you become the person, the grown up, the remarkable individual you are.
So : The sleepless nights
The town out searching in Helensville while you were at the beach
The silver paint on Grand-dad’s chair
The trips to hospital
Cars catching fire
Cars over cliffs – and all the other little dramas acted out over the
Past 21 years have been worth it.
It is lovely to think of Alun & Daryl sharing a party tonight & that many of their school friends are helping them celebrate.
You see Alun – they know what your father & I have always known.
You are intelligent, witty, ethical & loyal. A steadfast friend, a loving sibling and I am privileged to be able to call you my son.
My only regret is that I am not there, in person, to read out this speech.
But if I was I would only cry & spoil the party.
SO – Everyone – Charge your glasses & drink a toast to my son Alun & to Daryl – 2 Waiuku School Chums celebrating Adulthood tonight.
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They will be your compass in the darkest of times. As you celebrate your 21st birthday, know that I am here, cheering you on every step of the way. I have every confidence that you will make the world a better place through your actions, your kindness, and your passion. Happy birthday, my dear son.
Never sleeping (how things have changed) and always ready to see what the day will bring. So here we are on your 21st birthday. Nothing much has changed since the first day I brought you home from the hospital (well, maybe the crying has ceased). You have always been my bundle of energy, always asking a million questions, always wanting to kick ...
Second, you can start with a poem about the event and take it from there. Third, you can begin with some quotes about a mom's love for son or daughter. Let's look at a few quotes and then I will show you how to use it to write a short example. Quote#1: The best thing a mom can do for his children is to love them----Jean Dan.
4. Be the first to say "I'm sorry". I promise you this: if you will get into the habit of humbling yourself, even when you may not feel you were wrong, you will be amazed by the results. 5. Forgive. It could save you from wasting a perfectly good life. 6. Be punctual. It speaks volumes.
Thanks to Randy White for letting us re-post it here. By the way, let's look at the entire script. Here is an example 18th/21st Birthday speech delivered by a dad to his son but of course you can adapt it for your daughter. Twenty-one years ago today (August 11, 1994), Shelley and I had the wonderful joy of receiving a gift of God in the form ...
But after looking for tips and ideas from friends, she gave this message on her daughter's 21st birthday. Margaret, I always believed in having a wonderful daughter like you, and I longed to hold and cuddle you in my arms. But you never seemed to arrive when your dad and I were expecting you.
Just ensure that the humor aligns with the celebrant's personality and the tone of the celebration. End with a Toast: Raising Your Glass to 21 Years. Conclude your speech by proposing a heartfelt toast. Encourage everyone to raise their glasses in celebration of the birthday honoree's journey and the exciting years that lie ahead.
Birthday speech example 2 - Thank you speech. I want to take a moment to say thank you for everyone who has come down to come celebrate this birthday with me. It means a lot that you have all taken the time and I must say that I am blessed to have each and every one of you in my life. Thank you.
Inspirational Letter to Son. 9. Happy 21st Birthday, Son: You made it! You're a full-fledged legal adult. In honor of the milestone, I'm passing on five "don'ts" that will make your life journey a heck of a lot smoother. Don't overspend in your 20s. It may feel like you're Scrooge McDuck when you get your first "real" job.
Here's to [Birthday Person's Name]! May your 21st year be filled with joy, laughter, and unforgettable moments. Happy 21st Birthday! Cheers!". Closing: "Thank you all for being here to celebrate this special day. Let's continue to enjoy the evening and make more beautiful memories together. Happy Birthday, [Birthday Person's Name]!".
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Step 4. Read your speech to yourself out loud a few times to make sure it sounds smooth and feels comfortable. The speech should be short and to the point to highlight the birthday celebrant without dragging it out so long that guests get bored. Make any tweaks necessary to shorten the length of the speech or make it sound more natural.
Tailor the speech to suit your friend's personality and the specific party theme. For example: At a party with a theme, such as tropical oasis or retro 90s, tie the speech into the theme. Work in related phrases and even rhymes! For a truly unique birthday speech, consider writing a list of 21 "things" about your friend or family member.
Alternatively, you can go for any of these well-wishes. Wishing you all the best on your 21st…Hope you enjoy every second. Congratulations on blissfully overcoming two decades of your life. Welcome to the next chapter of your life…Happy Birthday.
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Dear son, How on earth are you turning 21 years old this week. I have no idea where the years have gone, yet here we are and you are all grown up and not even living at home that much anymore. It goes without saying that I want to wish you a very Happy 21st Birthday and I hope you have an amazing day. This is now the 3rd birthday we haven't ...
1. Happy 21st birthday, sweetheart. I wish you a lifetime of love, happiness, and huge accomplishments. May this new age be the best you've ever had. 2. Your birthday brings so much joy into my heart. It reminds me of the moment you graced our world. Thank you for staying, dear son. Happy 21st birthday, my love.
This could include an overview of their life, major achievements and milestones, and best wishes for the future. Everybody loves funny birthday speeches, so it's always a good idea to include some humour. The best way to do this is to tell funny stories about the person. If it's a birthday speech for a best friend, it could include funny ...
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21st birthday speech for my son. by trudi. Rated: 13+ · Other · Family · # 1150817. Speech (given verbally on tape) and later used in speech contest - & won! Early December I received an email from Alun advising the date of his 21st Party - YOU MUST COME MUM - He said. Turns out what he REALLY wanted was a speech!
Here is an example 18th/21st Birthday speech delivered by a dad to his son but of course you can adapt it for your daughter. Twenty-one years ago today (August 11, 1994), Shelley and I had the wonderful joy of receiving a gift of God in the form of a baby boy. Randy and Nathan White, 1994. We lived in Munday, Texas at the time.